直到最后一刻你才确认是爱的，就算杀了人也是爱的，是一生的挚爱。 “你们不要再说她了,” Charlie said, “ it’s our fucking wedding”.
也许错误就在美国。it's this country. It’s happening everyday in this country. She didn’t come up with it on her own.
因为比起emma的故事，rachel的故事是更容易代入的，她的恶是更容易被想象的。emma的恶对于我来说很难被代入，我无法把自己position到Charlie的perspective。
It’s the country and the shared trauma in America caused this drama, at least a major part of it.
Charlie的反应可以被理解，因为自己commit to的人向自己隐瞒了一段重要的人生时期。但他周围人对于这个故事的反应体现了how mass shooting is a shared trauma in the U.S.. In the whole process, no one was able to help Charlie to calm down and reflect on what does it mean for him knowing this dark period of time in Emma’s life. 也许应该被先关注的是why emma didn’t tell him after so long being together rather than why she didn’t do it.
我的疑问是为什么安排dj does heorin的部分，是为了反衬emma不接受别人的隐瞒但坦然允许了自己在婚前对于过往的隐瞒吗？
charlie是个懦弱的人。Rachel ofc has her own problems.
So everyone is so imperfect. Imperfect in such a crucial way. In a way that you could be judged as a bad person immediately.
但最终我们发现我们是爱的。就算如果你曾经杀过人。因为在过去的两年里，在一切崩毁的这一刻，我意识到我其实早就看清了你。我信任你是一个innocent person, although how imperfect and even bad you could be.
还有婚纱太美了，还有她家的stereo system is so awesome. 我喜欢这部电影的质感和故事讲述的方式. It’s new and creative。
想听听美国人的感受。想知道美国人能不能代入Charlie和他朋友的reaction。和他们对与lock in closet vs. almost planned a mass shooting 的故事的代入对比。